老友记第六季

I thought that is mattered what I said or where I said it. Then I realized the only thing that matters is that you. You make me happier than I ever thought I could be. And you if let me, I'll spend the rest of my life trying to make you feel the same way. 我以为开口的时间地点很重要，后来我才发现，唯一重要的，是你。你让我得到了超乎想象的幸福。如果你愿意，我愿意用下半生，让你和我一样幸福。

目前，一共有三部作品明确的表达了我对于爱情的定义，分别是《活了一百万次的猫》，《樱花乱》以及《老友记》 《活了一百万次的猫》的爱情抓住了爱情最本质的东西，从虎皮猫最喜欢自己 到 虎皮猫发现自己喜欢白猫和小猫们胜过自己 《樱花乱》中的爱情体现在清次为清叶的等待，清叶对清次的不自知的眷恋，以及那句台词， 清次：跟我走的话，你会失去所有 清叶：总比拥有一切要有意思吧 《老友记》则是体现在Chandler和Monica在第一季到第六季的每个细节之中。他们是什么样的人，以及他们恋爱之后如何为对方做出改变以及这改变的动力来自哪里，一步一步的积累，每个细节我都觉得很爱情，［这其中包括Mon如何一点点改掉自己的怪癖，Chandler如何战胜自己对于承诺和婚姻的恐惧，如何成长］，最终到Chandler说出“Before I met u I have really little life” 爱情的定义很明确了。说说什么时候一个人准备好走向婚姻。 有一天，当你对自己说，这个世界我已经看过了，那时候，你就准备好步入婚姻了。换句话说，你已经 活了“一百万次”了 On what links people to love : The desire for being together comes from the need of not being alone and the lack of safety (security), both do not differ very much since they origin from the same root. So far this is what I think based on my observation. ps：Though I shed some tears when he proposes, the Richard thing is really a bummer pps: I take back all the prejudice of friends and strongly recommend this tv series. I understand it had to be a comedy cause' it had to make profit. pss: The role of Rach and Ross is a brilliant idea. It reflects the condition of normal people who are in a mess, and the Mon-Chan seems to be more shining under the contrast.