相见恨晚1945

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主演:西莉亚·约翰逊,特瑞沃·霍华德,斯坦利·霍洛威,乔伊丝·凯里,埃弗利·格雷格,玛格丽特·巴顿

类型:电影地区:英国语言:英语年份:1945

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Laura(西莉亚·约翰逊 Celia Johnson 饰)的生活简单而幸福:有一个爱她的丈夫,一对可爱的儿女。每个周四她都习惯搭火车去附近的一个地方买东西。这天,在火车站旁的一间小餐厅,眼睛被吹进了沙子的她得到了医生Alec(特瑞沃·霍华德 Trevor Howard 饰)的帮助。几天后,她又在餐厅遇到了医生,由于桌子不够,两人便坐在一起吃饭,相谈甚欢。原来医生也已经结婚,每个星期二也来这里的本地医院帮忙。两人约定下星期再见面......频繁的见面和陪伴,让两个已经结了婚的人越来越渴望见到对方,他们知道,他们相爱了......但这样的爱情在那个年代注定无法长久,即使他们深爱着对方,最后也不得不分离。Alec告诉Laura,他即将去遥远的南非,留下了失魂落魄的Laura......  本片改编自No?l Coward的独幕剧《Still Life》,获...凶煞吉时石头剪刀布2015阿比盖尔马语者武动天地源味中国利箭行动最后的棚户人家致命24小时换子疑云索尼娅与公牛乐斗之争霸江湖白发魔女传1993歧途英雄美人乱舞睡在我上铺的兄弟副作用走神拳王深度死亡录像4:启示录暗夜之女集中营血泪复仇者联盟3:无限战争(原声版)现代灰姑娘拉斯维加斯第一季我的王国江湖学院第一季疯狂电影人2心虚有荣人们的生活悍妞万里追决裂敬启,父亲大人交换舞伴情满吊脚楼无效申请地平线系列:被黑洞吞噬导盲犬小Q第二次人生嫁到宫里的男人皮特·戴维森:哥就是帅迷局伏香(粤语版)上班一条虫

 长篇影评

 1 ) 普通吧

听到拉赫玛尼诺夫的时候,第一感觉是--不会吧。著名的音乐必然会引发观众一定的联想或者调动一定的情绪,但那与电影本身无涉。
我的联想是《七年之痒》,那首用来勾引玛丽莲梦露的曲子。
也许是我期望太高,总希望在中年厌倦婚外感情对家人内疚之外看到一些别的什么,好像没有。
表现这一类女人内心的挣扎,还是《廊桥遗梦》中的斯特里普更让我印象深刻。
爱需要勇气的,其实。

 2 ) 那突然发生的感情脱轨

这是大卫.里恩的作品,没有怎么看过他的电影,但这部《相见恨晚》拍得太好了。四十年代就能拍出这样细腻曲折的电影,真厉害。

这里讲了一个非常贤惠的家庭主妇,与一个医生偶然相遇,发展出不可扼制的感情。虽然不由自主,但这种偷偷摸摸的关系,也使她觉得肮脏与可耻。但她也没有办法不滑向深渊。最后医生体会到了她的这种心态,断然离开,使得他们的关系守住了最后一道防线。

如果推迟五十年,这也可以发生在中国。看来中国与西方的差距,也就是五十年,这五十年,人们在性关系上的观念真是发生了巨大的变化。

这样一个故事,在十八世纪的卢梭的《新爱洛伊丝》中就已经有相似的表达了。两人真挚的、不可扼制的激情,但为了女方的幸福,男方自我牺牲地离开,使女方保持了清白。

但这部电影把这个过程处理得曲折而委婉,感情反应非常符合当事人的心态与情绪,确实非常出色。

 3 ) If you forgive me, I will forgive you

Laura静静不说话的表情有一种忧郁的美,没有佩戴耳环,也没有其他明显的配饰,高挑苗条的身形,整齐优雅的发型,还有那双会说话的眼睛,已经让她足够美丽。

整个影片都是Laura的回忆,在车站送走了让自己心动的人,然后把整个故事都回忆一遍,这样算是给这段感情一个交代吧。而两人全程都没有身体上的越轨行为,让这段意外而来的感情更加单纯。

在一起的最后一天,两个人只是一起吃饭,开车兜风,去了曾经去过的小桥。并没有什么特别的纪念性的举动,也没有什么实质性的承诺。假如你知道,这是你跟心上人在一起的最后一天,往后漫长的几十年里,你们几乎再无见面的可能,你依然什么也做不了,只能任由最后的几个小时这样流淌,流淌。

最后的一幕,Laura的回忆结束了,忍不住哭了起来,丈夫温柔地抱住她,说欢迎她回来。(这还真像我小时候读到过的一个小故事,故事里女孩子出轨了,但是最后回到了男友身边,男友也是这样温柔地抱过,以一种看透一切的心态接纳了她。)

一段单纯的婚外情,意外地来,静静地走了。这算是最好的结局、最明智的选择了吧,短暂的相处过,有过快乐和煎熬,最后互相原谅,互相远离。我喜欢Laura探出火车窗,对Alec说的那句"If you forgive me, I will forgive you"。爱过的人要心平气和地道别,多么不容易。

 4 ) Forgive me for loving you.

1999年,BFI评出了英国影史百大影片排行榜,本片位居次席,仅在《第三个人》之后。影片打动我们的原因,不是因为David Lean的大名(获奥斯卡提名),不是因为男女主角的精彩演绎(女主角获奥斯卡提名),不是因为巧妙地倒序和细腻的独白(编剧亦获奥斯卡提名),不是因为娴熟的黑白光影或悦耳的钢琴协奏曲。它的伟大之处在于其准确描绘又真诚探讨了一个人类社会的无解难题:如果禁忌之恋发生了,你该怎么办?
人类历史最终选择一夫一妻的婚姻制度有其必然性和合理性,但不代表它是完美的。事实证明,一个人是可能同时爱上多个人的,而审美疲劳喜新厌旧本就是人之本性;这就意味着一个人在结婚之后,完全有可能再爱上另一个人,即使他/她仍保持着对当前伴侣的爱意。这个时候,对家庭的责任感和对道德谴责的害怕将约束着人们的出轨,就像剧中人那样,即使两情相悦难以自已,也只能“相见恨晚”,此情可待成追忆。他们纵然最终保持了贤妻良母和翩翩君子的良好形象,但他们失去的可能是一生难求的刻骨铭心的幸福。既然人都有追求幸福的权力,此时,谁又能说这样压抑人性的道德标准是百分百正确的呢?

 5 ) 你是我眼里的一粒砂

      曾经有一个问题在我的脑海里思索过,但至今不能有一个让人清晰的定案。我在想,如果有一天,你生命中的真爱降临在你眼前,而此时你却已经牵手他人,你会如何选择?你选择生活的继续,还是选择不顾一切跟真爱私奔。我很恐惧面对如此,所以希望能一次遇见对的人,而不是陷入纠缠。也许这世上的大多数人都是这么希望自己能如此被上天眷顾,但却尽不如人意。
    你又是否有“相见恨晚”的感慨呢?所以当我看见电影的名字叫此,就很难不想看它一看。一场人到中年的相知邂逅,看似浪漫平静却把两个幸福的婚姻家庭推向面临崩溃解散的悲剧边缘。但结局也没有逃出我的预料,它一如《廊桥遗梦》,一如《纯真年代》,因爱承担,因爱舍弃。
     女主人公劳拉眼里的一粒砂牵出了一场相见恨晚的邂逅。如果说人生是偶然,也正因为偶然造就了我们对命中注定有必然的误解。劳拉和亚力克多次的不期而遇给他们创造了彼此相处的机会,似乎也给了他们冥冥之中要注定发展的错觉。可能这是注定,可能这是错觉,但不能否认两人是多么情投意合,多么相知默契,这难道不是一切爱情的开端吗?在此我有个疑惑,难道他们当初与自己的爱人相爱不也如此吗?为何却又判定中途相遇的人就是一生所爱?那前半生陪你走过,又给你幸福感觉的人是什么呢?所以,所谓真爱是多么难以定案啊,也因此我们的人生充满着缺憾,也充满一种美丽。
     其实生活的幸福已经转为了不易察觉的平淡,就算你的爱人曾经跟你也是相知相爱而来,但爱情的热烈总归会趋于平淡,所以你会产生“这还是我当年爱的人吗”的犹豫和不确定。也许就在这时,一个怀着同样心情的人无意闯进你的生活,又有无数次的邂逅,焕发了你内心对曾经激情的渴望,于是你们陷入爱河。当然,你们的情感是真挚的,是因为彼此欣赏,彼此默契,而不仅仅是肉体的激情,但同时你们也经受道德和精神的折磨,因为这是不被允许和宽恕的,你们有家庭和孩子,你对他们仍也有爱。责任已经大于爱情。
     《廊桥遗梦》中的女主人公最终没能放下丈夫和孩子跟摄影师走,《纯真年代》中纽兰最终因为未婚妻和腹中孩子的挽留没有和海伦一起走,劳拉也没有选择一走了之。因为走了永远也不能了之,不能了之一份责任和牵挂,以及负罪和愧疚。其实他们的另一半都洞察了自己爱人的纠结和不舍,但他们都用最明智的方式挽留了爱人,那就是家庭和宽恕。
    因此,有些感情它只能埋藏在心底,也许你会悲伤,你会遗憾,但至少你的幸福里没有罪恶和歉疚。我们需要伟大,需要一种牺牲和奉献,因为一切的一切,是我们相见恨晚。如果你在我说“我愿意”的时候出现,我会义无返顾跟你走,可是你出现的时候却是孩子和爱人在家等我的时候,那我又能怎样呢?
    你就像是我眼里的一粒砂,刺痛神经,饱含泪水,便将你永留眼中,深埋心底一份永恒的灼痛。而用眼泪把你送走,留下一份让人无法忘怀的回忆。

 6 ) Far from Freedom: Women’s Identity Crisis in Brief Encounter and Other Two films

In her On Female Identity and Writing by Women, Judith Kegan Gardiner observes: “the word ‘identity is paradoxical in itself, meaning both sameness and distinctiveness, and its contradictions proliferate when it is applied to women” (Gardiner 347). In the post-war era, it was obvious that, more distinctiveness was added to women’s identity.
According to Arthur Marwick, “In general the war meant a new economic and social freedom for women, the experience of which could never be entirely lost” (Marwick 160). The war had an enduring effect of liberation for women in Britain, which manifested itself in various aspects of their lives. In her enlightening book, Only Half Way to Paradise: Women in Post-war Britain: 1945-1968, Elizabeth Wilson probes into the condition of post-war women from different angles. Although she is critical that women still faced discrimination, oppression and inequity in post-war Britain, she makes it clear that they had become increasingly liberal, since they had more opportunities to work, more sexual freedom, higher levels of education and so on, and this was due to a combination of many social factors.
Liberation was undoubtedly great for women because it meant less repression and oppression, equality and more possibilities in life. However, it may also have exacerbated women’s identity crisis by adding more “distinctiveness”. According to Erik H. Erikson, identity crisis is caused by the loss of “a sense of personal sameness and historical continuity” (Erikson 17). In terms of individuals in the group of women, although the liberation they enjoyed in the post-war era brought them more possibilities in life, it also meant that they faced various kinds of predicament in which their original roles were challenged, and this led to uncertainty about their identity. Brief Encounter, A Taste of Honey and The Killing of Sister George are three post-war films which delineated women’s identity crisis. Although the protagonists in these films have some particularity, their encounters still represent some of the possible aggravation of inner turmoil women’s liberation may have brought to individuals. This essay aims to explore the particularity of the plights of identity crisis faced by the protagonists in the three films under the background of the communal changes to women’s lives in the post-war era.
Brief Encounter, directed by David Lynn, is based on Coward Noel's one-act play, Still Life. It depicts the unenduring affair between Laura Jesson, a "happily-married" middle-class house wife and mother and Alec Harvey, a married doctor. The extremely well-received film was released in the immediate post-war year, 1945. During the 1940s, British women experienced a series of transformations under the influence of the war. The labour shortage brought about increasing opportunities of paid work for women, which led to a conflict with motherhood. Since many women were away from home to work, the government began to provide nurseries, “thereby relieving mothers of a burden central to ideal motherhood” (Lant 154). Meanwhile, sexuality became more open. The Second World War was “a very romantic war”, and part of the reason for this was that cinemas (where the two main characters used to date) and dance halls “provided the ideal territory for romantic encounters” (Bruley 114). The total birth rate was falling, while illegitimacy was on the increase, and divorce rate rose rapidly. Married women were no longer “icons of ‘decency and stability’” (Lant 155).
This is the history background of Brief Encounter. It belongs to an age that the image “ideal motherhood” was shaken; therefore Laura’s plight is also encountered by the female audiences at that time. The increasingly liberate social mode enabled them to question their traditional role of mother and wife in marriage and see the possibility of free themselves from it, but many of them could not take the step for reasons like the lack of income or dare not to break the moral code.
Laura is cast as a representation of the women at that time. Her identity crisis is led by the conflict between her awaking self-awareness and the social role of wife and mother which she has always been playing.
In her interior confession to her husband Fred, Laura states:
“You see, we are a happily married couple and must never forget that. This is my home. You are my husband and my children are upstairs in bed. I’m a happily married woman; or rather I was until a few weeks ago. This is my whole world, or it was until a few weeks ago.”
This monologue suggests that, before her encounter with Alec, Laura had identified herself as a wife and a mother, which was not exciting but definitely secure. Addressing the state of “happily married” which she “must never forget”, she is actually defending the identity under threat, and this reflects her dissatisfaction with the marriage in which her individuality is gradually being obliterated. Being a housewife, Laura regards her family as being her “whole world”. As a result, she has to spend most of her time in a house which seems to be so cramped that even the music from the radio can be “deafening”. This restricted domestic space has led to the insufficiency of individual space, which reinforces her social role of mother and wife, but consistently hinders her from being herself. Laura’s monotonous daily life as a housewife is also tedious. When Alec asks her if she comes to town every week, she explains that her regular Thursday schedule which brings about the affair is “not a very exciting routine, but it makes a change.” Moreover, there is some distance exists between Laura and her husband. Having no income, she is sustained by her husband who is described as “kindly, unemotional and not delicate at all” and “not musical at all”. In the film we don’t see he has any leisure activities other than playing crossword puzzles. However, Laura is cast conversely as sensitive and romantic. She goes to cinema every Thursday, borrows Kate O’ Brien’s novel from Boots, listens to classical music and is referred to Fred as a “poetry addict” who is quite familiar with Keats’ poems. The couple seems to lack common interest. Consequently, although Fred seems to be a considerate and understanding husband, he can never fulfil Laura’s demand for romanticism and passion. Their affection is very much based on kinship.
 These facts illustrate that, although marriage provides Laura with material things and a feeling of safety, it simultaneously represses her desire for individuality, and this has been the most significant contributor to Laura’s identity crisis.
The inevitability of the affair is implied in their first encounter. Laura thanks Alec for getting the grit out of her eyes, saying that: “Lucky for me you were here.” Alec answered: “Anybody could have done it.” The conversation ingeniously suggests that the affair is ineluctable for Laura because of the contradiction between her family role and desire, and this explains why even the main male character, Alec, is ambiguously constructed --- he can be “anybody”.
The reason for Alec to have captivated Laura is predominately that their relationship is beyond marriage, which enables him to cater to Laura’s need to be desired, not as a wife and a mother, but as a woman. When Laura and Alec bare their souls to each other for the first time in the boathouse, Alec says he loves Laura for her “wide eyes”, the way she smiles, her “shyness”, and the way she laughs at his jokes. His words indicate that it is Laura’s femininity that he adores. Some feminists have made observations about the contradiction between sexuality and motherhood, that the stereotype of mothers tends to be unsexy, and even in its aesthetic form, it is hard “to imagine a mother as ‘something else besides a mother’” (Lant 157). Therefore, the relationship outside marriage with Alec enables Laura to briefly escape from the role of mother and be loved for her herself, for being an individual rather than because her of husband’s obligation to love her simply because they are married.
The extra-marital affair with Alec is led by Laura’s identity crisis, and inversely aggravates the crisis since she finds that her familial identity, which provides her with security, is under threat. Laura realises the peril when it occurs to her that Alec will not tell his wife about their date: “Then the first awful feeling of danger swept over me.” The affair has brought about ambiguity and confusion in terms of her family role. After she lies to Fred, she refers to herself as “a stranger in the house”. Moreover, although motherhood can restrict Laura, the affair, which could possibly have caused her to abandon her children, still runs against her maternal instinct and brings about a sense of guilt. When her son, Bobbie, is knocked down by a car after her first date with Alec, she regards it as being her “fault”, “a sort of punishment” and “an awful, sinister warning”. Also, she thinks that a boy she met in the botanical park who looks like Bobbie should have given her “a pang of consciousness”. Thirdly, as a middle-class white woman, she fears that breaking the moral code could be a source of marginalisation, because her self-identification is also formed from other’s judgment. She is so afraid of the immoral affair being known that, at the end of the date with Alec, she looks around after getting on the train to see if people are looking at her “as if they could read my [her] secret thoughts.” When the affair is discovered by Alec’s friend, she supposes she has been laughed at and thinks of herself as being “cheap and low”. After this incident, Laura ends her relationship with Alec and goes back to her husband. Nevertheless her confusion about her identity grows deeper.
Similar to Brief Encounter, A Taste of Honey is a female-centred film adapted from a play of the same name written by Shelagh Delaney. The play was first produced on the 27th May 1958, while the film was released in 1961, which suggests that the film reflects the landscape of post-war Britain from the 1950s to the beginning of the 1960s. During that period, the trend of women’s employment did not decline, although women’s working lives were intertwined with child-rearing. Part-time jobs were more popular, especially with married women (Bruley 123), and importance began to be attached to education. Although being treated inequitably with boys, more girls, including those from working-class families, had a better chance of being educated. According to Sue Bruley, this was also a period when “slowly, signs of a liberalisation of attitudes regarding sex were appearing.” The Kinsey Report helped to “create a climate in which sexual activity was demystified and women’s enjoyment of sex more openly recognised” A survey conducted in 1956 revealed that “two-fifths of first sexual intercourse was occurring before marriage” Meanwhile, young people became “more self-aware and self-centred” as disciplines were less strictly forced by their parents” (Bruley 135). This also constituted a reason for teenagers to become more sexually active, which led to a higher rate of teenage pregnancy.
According to Erickson, adolescence is a period of identity crisis because, during the progression from childhood to adulthood, it is quite common that the physical and psychological transformation causes a loss of the “sense of personal sameness” and “historical continuity”. Teenage pregnancy, which was faced by an increasing number of young females in that era, undoubtedly added some complexity to this situation. The predicament confronted by Jo, the protagonist in A Taste of Honey, is fairly representative; at the age of 16, she is made pregnant by her black sailor boyfriend.
Apart from the combined reasons for the teenage identity crisis, there is some particularity in Jo’s case, which is the conflict between her wish to be independent and her desire for maternal solicitude, which has continued from her childhood. There is an obvious reversal between the roles of the mother, Helen, and her daughter. Jo is “the more responsible of the two” (Wandor 40). Being a single mother herself, Helen immerses herself in sexual relationships with men and constantly neglects Jo’s interests, since she believes, “In any case, bearing a child does not put you under an obligation to it.” Although Jo has expressed her will to be independent by wanting a room of her own, her desire for maternal affection, as well as her childish possessive instincts, prevent her from truly detaching herself from Helen. Consequently, she is hostile toward her mother’s lover, Peter, blaming him for “planning to run off with my [her] old women”, and feels abandoned when Helen finally marries Peter. What is more, although she moves out in the hope of being independent, it can be perceived that Jo is looking for similar maternal care rather than the independence of adulthood in her relationship with the two male characters, Jimmie and Geoff. Jimmie, the sailor who has sex with Jo and makes her pregnant, is “as mother-surrogate as much as lover” (Lovell 371). Jimmie helps Jo to carry the big cases, which should have been carried by Helen, off the bus when they move to a new flat, and applies a bandage to Jo’s injured knee. Rather than the pursuit of adulthood, their sexual behaviour is more of a compensation for Helen’s abandonment of Jo, since it happens after Helen sends Jo home alone from Blackpool after her bitter wrangle with Peter. Being homosexual, Geoff’s feminine characteristics make him equally proficient at domestic tasks. According to Lovell, like Jimmie, he provides Jo with “the ‘mothering’ which Helen refuses” (Lovell 372). As a result, the unattained maternal love prevents Jo from growing up, and thus deepens her identity crisis.
Moreover, Jo’s crisis is further exacerbated by her adolescence pregnancy. As Terry Lovell observes, at the age of 16, she is “poised between childhood and womanhood, precipitated into adulthood by her affair with Jimmie and her pregnancy” (Lovell 374). It is unquestionable that she cannot bear the responsibility of being a mother, having not completely got rid of childhood herself, and therefore she detests and fears the sudden shift of roles. When talking about breast-feeding, she says: “I’m not having a little animal nibbling at me. It’s cannibalistic.” Then she states, “I hate motherhood.” Also, having seen a “filthy” boy and a dead baby mouse, her sense of refusing to take responsibility for sexuality and motherhood is evoked: “…Think of the harm she does having children… A bit of love and a bit of lust and there’y are. We don’t ask for life; we have it thrust upon us.” Her reflection again indicates that she was not prepared for motherhood and regards it as being something “thrust upon” her. In addition, because Jimmie’s father’s is black, the possibility of the child having a dark skin colour constitutes another factor which leads to the instability of Jo’s identity. When she sees the doll Geoff brings from a clinic for her to “practice a few holds” which is modelled on the mainstream, white, she becomes angry and bursts into tears because “the colour is wrong”. Then she pounds the doll furiously and shouts. “I’ll bash its brain out! I’ll kill it!” Her extreme behaviour reveals her fear of being marginalised by having a black baby, and furthermore, the fear of motherhood itself. Subsequently, she desperately admits, “I don’t want this child! I don’t want to be a mother!” After Helen is thrown out by Peter, Jo ultimately abandons her relationship with Geoffrey and comes back to her mother. This again attests to her identity crisis; being a mother, Jo is not able to cut herself off from childhood.

Apart from the sameness of being play-adapted and women-centred, by directly depicting lesbianism, The Killing of Sister George expresses a much more radical attitude toward women’s sexuality than Brief Encounter and A Taste of Honey. It also touches on the female professional life, which was not mentioned in the last two films. The film was released in 1968, thus it is placed under the historical background of the 1960s, the last decade before the women’s liberation movement. There was an increase in the number of professional women during the 1960s, although they were still discriminated against. People’s attitude toward sexuality became more liberal than in the 1950s, which was suggested by the rising illegitimacy, the wide usage of contraceptive pills, and the availability of legal abortions to women (Bruley 137-139). Moreover, in the 1960s the male and female youth were “far more visually alike”, although the gender behaviour had not markedly changed (136). Lesbianism, which is centralised in The Killing of Sister George, still remained largely invisible. Therefore, the attitude toward women’s homosexuality expressed in the film is actually more radical than the social reality. Nevertheless, as the first commercial lesbian film, it still betrayed the growing tendency for homosexual women to face up to their role and begin to be gradually accepted by society, as the women’s liberation movement, in which lesbians began to claim their rights, began to warm up in 1969 (149), the following year after the release of this film.
        Different from Laura and Jo, the protagonist, June Buckridge, is a professional woman, an actress in a soap opera of BBC, and also a lesbian. It seems that she benefits from the increasingly liberal society. Having a decent job, she is able to be economically independent of men, and she has also asserted her homosexuality by cohabiting with her much younger girl friend, Alice. However, these elements also constitute the factors of her identity crisis.
June’s profession as an actress has led to her identity crisis, because of the blurring of the boundary between the role she plays and her own identity. In the film, June has played the role of Sister George, a district nurse in a TV soap named Applehurst, for four years. Its popularity has meant that June’s own identity has been replaced by her part, since all the people in the film call her George rather than using her own name. Also, according to Mercy Croft, June’s superior at the BBC, she “is Sister George and far more so than June Buckridge”. Therefore, June loses her own identity to her public role. In addition, June also unconsciously blurs the boundary between her part and herself because of their sharp contrast. Sister George is a much respected character in the soap opera. She represents the mainstream values of British society, while in reality, June is an outsider, an alcoholic, abusive and aggressive middle-aged lesbian. Rather than facing up to herself and resolving her problems, June chooses to make the boundary between her role and herself vague, thus evading the sense of marginalisation in her own identity. When she tells Alice that Sister George is to be killed in the soap opera, she uses “me” to refer to her part, saying, “They are going to murder me”. This line shows her confusion between her role and herself, attests to the blurring of the boundary, and indicates her anxiety about losing her part. For her, the killing of Sister George is the obliteration of her own identity in a disguised form, because the two have been muddled up with one another for so long. As a result, she feels the loss of continuity and sameness in her own identity. Therefore, her profession evokes her identity crisis while bringing her economic independence.
June’s homosexuality also worsens her identity crisis. In the film, there is no obvious discrimination in people’s attitude toward June’s lesbianism. Thus, the tension between the couple is produced by their inner turmoil rather than external pressure. In her conversation with Betty, a prostitute, June expresses her desire for “love and affection”. However, she has never been able to have this in her relationship with Alice. In her Female Masculinity, Judith Halberstam refers to June as “an aggressive bully, a loudmouth dyke and an abusive lover”, and then points out that she is actually vulnerable and dignified (Halberstam 182). As a matter of fact, for June, controlling Alice physically and psychologically by abusing her is to get a sort of certainty about their relationship and herself. As Wandor observes, June’s domestic gender is male (Wandor 62). She has established something similar to masculine authority in their lesbian relationship. However, her loss of job leads to the disintegration of such authority, and consequently deepens her uncertainty about her identity.
        At the beginning of the film, the relationship between June and Alice is dominated by the former. The scene in which June forces Alice to eat her cigar butt reveals her initial domination, but also becomes a mark of the turning point in their power relationship. While chewing the cigar butt, Alice’s facial expression changes from disgust to enjoyment, and in this way, she makes the punishment a pleasure. Her behaviour signifies the loss of efficiency of June’s authority, as she states desperately, “Once you spoil something, you can never make it work again.” Significantly, this happens the first time June express her anxiety about losing her job, which reveals the impact of June’s job loss on their lesbian relationship. The change in their power relationship is partly caused by economic reasons. When Alice blames June for her frivolous behaviour in assaulting some nuns in a taxi, June says: “Kindly keep your foul-mouthed recollections to yourself and remember who pays the rent.” This denotes that June’s authority is based on her economic superiority to some degree, and is threatened by the possibility of losing her job. Alice answers: ‘Not for much longer, perhaps.” More importantly, their relationship changes because of June’s sense of inferiority after losing her part as Sister George. In fact, in her relationship with Alice, June has always used ferocity and brutality to disguise her inner vulnerability, and the trauma caused by the loss of her job actually makes her more dependent on Alice, and thus, June’s authority begins to collapse. When Alice finally leaves with Mrs. Croft, this signifies the end of June’s domestic role in the lesbian relationship. Interestingly, this happens after the crew’s farewell party for her, which indicates the end of her professional role. Having lost her professional and domestic roles, the continuity and sameness in her identity is destroyed. In the final scene, June walks into the TV studio, only to find that “even the bloody coffin is a fake”. Sitting in her ruined TV world, she desperately let out a “mooo!” like a cow. June’s reduction of herself to a non-human is evidence that she has totally sunk into an identity crisis.

It can be concluded from the above analysis that liberation does not necessarily means freedom for women. If women don’t look up to themselves and really question their role, liberation can pose threaten to the completeness of their identity. From the 1940s to the 1960s, although the social mode became increasingly liberal toward women, the three protagonists experienced the same plight of an identity crisis, caused by their inner turmoil rather than social circumstances in different forms. Therefore, to gain real freedom, apart from asserting their rights, it is equally important for women to go back to themselves, and question who they really are and what they really want.
                            Works Cited

Bruley, Sue. Women in Britain since 1900, London: Macmillan Press, 1999. Print.
Erikson, Erik. Identity: Youth and Crisis, New York City: W. W. Norton & Company, 1994. Print.
Gardiner, Judith Kegan. “On Female Identity and Writing by Women” Critical Inquiry, 8.2 (1981): 347-361. Web. 24 Apr. 2011.
Halberstam, Judith. Female Masculinity, Durham: Duke University Press, 1998. Print.
Lant, Antonia. Blackout: Reinventing Women for Wartime British Cinema, New Jersey: Princeton University Press, 1992. Print.
Lovell, Terry. “Landscapes and Stories in 1960s British Realism” Screen, 31:4 (1990): 357-376. Web 2 May. 2011.
Marwick, Elizabeth. Only Half Way to Paradise: Women in Post-war Britain: 1945-1968, London: Routledge, 1980. Print.
Wandor, Michelene. Post-war British Drama: Looking Back in Gender, London: Routledge, 2001. Print.

 短评

第一人称的叙述让电影变得更具文学性,并且因为抹去了男方的心理活动,所以避免了似同类题材陷入伦理问题的讨论,取而代之的是深情且克制的情感,分寸之间把握得很妙。古典弦乐和贯穿始终 rachmaninov piano concert No.2 一响起,就会让人忆起生命中的星期四。结尾带来的情感高峰的倾斜镜头值得一提。

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第四千部标注,2019-1-6重看。没有奇迹没有童话,最终屈服于庸常生活,就这样走出彼此生命,水波不兴暗涌心底;单方面的叙述充满主观的忧伤,黑白光景更添沉闷周遭的无奈。她一遍又一遍地重复着对自己的谎言,那些无关紧要的细节是证明一切并非虚幻是证明,被镌刻进生命记忆。跌跌撞撞的雨夜,映照着无穷的后悔与无边的羞耻。从远景般的茶店环境描写入手,切切嘈嘈的周围里沉寂着他们的焦灼,非常古典手法的开场。火车站位于他们各自家庭的中间,两端俱不着边,终成空梦一场;这个架空式的环境是他们抵达浪漫与自由梦境的乌托邦通道,火车承载了相当重要的情感寄寓功能。

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可能尚未到达中年,感受不到那种陷于平淡生活的无力感。但单纯从电影的角度去看,亮点不多,结构单一,情节可猜,镜头也显得中规中矩。唯一的亮点是结尾处女主角从座位冲出门看着火车驶过的一段的镜头,将那段压抑的感情与犹豫表现得淋漓尽致。

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闪回就够你们学的

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这个女人有过一次难以抑制的出轨,但是更重要的是她一直有着一个好丈夫。

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随一句“谢谢你回到我身边”如梦初醒,也终于得以明晰何来如此忘我的沉迷。看似开宗了离经叛道的颂扬,其实却对主流价值观有着难得的温和。伦理不曾被真正探讨,而更像一个住在主角内心的角色,于她一呼一吸间波动着情与礼的权衡与起止,见证一场错生于不纯的纯爱如何随缘生息。于我,似未来的过去。

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相遇,相知,相爱,分离。不会再有下一个星期四。

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'Before Brief Encounter, characters never thought in British cinema, they simply acted.'

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